Author: tld1969

“Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own;” 1 Corinthians 6:19 NIV

I like this verse because it reminds me that God is always with me since He lives inside of me. When I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior, the Holy Spirit came to live in my heart. This brings me comfort knowing that God is always with me and that there is no where I can go that God will not be.

I also realize when I read this verse, that I am to take care of my body because it is a gift from God and the Holy Spirit is living inside of it. Now, I am the last person to lecture anyone about nutrition and exercise, so in regards to treating our bodies as the temples of the Holy Spirit that they are, I am going to say that I am trying to change what I put in my body and how much I move my body on a daily basis. I also believe that when we talk about watching what we put in our bodies that it is not simply food that can be destructive.

The entertainment we watch, the music we listen to and the influences we allow in our lives are as important to the protection and nurturance of our bodies as food, water and exercise. Again, within those areas, there are changes that I am trying to make so further protect my mind from the enemy having any influence over me.

In regards to the last part of the verse, it sometimes makes new Christians cringe, “you are not your own”. I understand what could make them feel uncomfortable with that sentence as we are taught throughout our lives to be independent and to not let anyone have that much control over us. My encouragement for anyone who has that reaction to the idea of the Creator of the world having control over you, is to study God’s word, talk your concerns out with mature Christians, and talk to God about it.

Heavenly Father, Thank You for giving us these miraculous bodies and then coming to live inside of them when we accept Jesus as our Lord and Savior. It is so generous of You to give Yourself to each believer that way. I pray that each one of us take seriously the concept that our bodies are Your temples and we should treat them as such. Help us to listen to Your guidance and change what needs changed in each of our lives. I pray this in Jesus’s name. Amen

“Brothers and sisters, we ask you to respect those who are working with you, leading you, and instructing you. Think of them highly with love because of their work. Live in peace with each other.” 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13 NIV

I believe our leaders have been chosen by God to becomes ministers. Most of them have attended specialized training or seminary schooling, so that they are educated in the bible and the doctrines of the particular denomination that they are going to preach in. They have worked hard to learn and understand spiritual concepts as well as how to hear from God the guidance that they seek.

A large number of ministers today do not wish to be thought of as being above the people in their congregations. They want to be seen as being ‘one of the congregation’, unfortunately that is difficult for me because the rest of the congregation was not called by God to go into full-time ministry. By accepting that calling on their lives, they became different, they accepted a higher level of responsibility and should be shown the respect that they have earned.

This verse instructs us to think highly of them because of the work that they do. We will not always agree with our spiritual leaders about how they handle a situation but we are instructed to give them the respect they deserve and love them. I heard a wise man once say that it is easy to judge how a leader handles situations until you step back and remember that you didn’t accept that calling to be a leader. It is in those moments that, if you are truthful with yourself, you can appreciate how difficult a job it is to be the shepherd of diverse individuals.

“And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” Colossians 3:17 NIV

I know that life can get boring at times or become mundane but this verse can help us remember that everything we do has a purpose. God placed us here to bring glory and honor to Him as we live our lives. This verse hung on the wall of a friend of mine’s office and she said that it helped her to read it when she was wanting to complain about the path that God had led her down.

In those times when she wanted to complain about the task she was to do or the difficult conversations she was going to have to have, she could look at that verse and remember that WHATEVER she was needing to do, she was to do it so that it brought glory and honor to our Lord Jesus. There is a myth sometimes around Christians that we don’t ever become bored with life, that we don’t feel like complaining about what we are tasked with to do.

That could not be further from the truth. We are like everyone else, we are human and we question things at times. There are times when we don’t want to do things we need to do and we grow weary. However, we are able to go to our Heavenly Father and ask for guidance, forgiveness for complaining and reminders of Who the focus is to be on as we are living life.

I encourage anyone who struggles with complaining about life to hang this verse somewhere they can see throughout their day so they can be reminded that everything we do should be done to bring glory and honor to our Lord Jesus.

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” Romans 12:18 NIV

I have been writing a lot about peace lately and it mostly has been about having inner peace and keeping inner peace, but today I want to talk about peace that affects those around us. In his letter to the Romans, Paul is laying out the “good news” or the “gospel” for everyone. He talks about how Christians should live, love, worship, and interact with each other.

The Christians in Rome were not being persecuted at the time of Paul’s letter but these reminders of how to live as a Christian are always good to hear. In the 18th verse of Romans 12, Paul reminds them to live in peace. Paul is acknowledging that we can only control ourselves and not those around us, so Paul, in this command reminds us to be responsible and control ourselves.

Controlling ourselves consists of being willing to not be easily offended by things that others say or do around you. I am not saying to ignore wrong behavior, but be willing to pause long enough to not react immediately. In that pause, I believe it is important to ask God for guidance and direction about the situation you are facing at that moment. That pause also allows us to not jump to a reaction and possibly exhibit wrong behavior as well in that moment.

Sometimes living in peace can be hard. If we have been hurt, abused or traumatized, the idea of living in peace can feel harder still. I believe living in peace starts with being at peace inside ourselves. Once we are able to truly have inner peace then the idea of living in peace with others becomes less challenging. Thankfully, God is able to help us each individually with this, if we are willing to ask for that help.

Another part of peace is being able to love others in a genuine way, not the kind of love that is only a show. What I mean by genuine is that you love people the same whether there are others around to see it or not. We all know someone who society has deemed as “unlovable” or “hard to love”. As a Christian, when we should be showing them the same genuine love that we have been shown by Jesus.

Lastly, we are to forgive others and not hold grudges. This is also a part of peace. Forgiveness is not for the person who has offended you, it is for you! Whether the person who has offended you is worried about the offense or not, whether they are sorry or not, forgiveness has implications internally for you as the one forgiving. Hatred does not promote peace, it stops peace from occurring. As we let go of hatred, grudges and begin forgiving, peace will increase inside of us. When we are at peace inside then living in peace that is evident externally is much easier. After all, who are we to not forgive others when Jesus died on the cross so that we could be forgiven.

Heavenly Father, please be with us today. I pray that whoever needs to hear this, hears it, myself included. As Your children we should want to walk in peace and live in peace with each other, so please help us to want that today. In Jesus’s precious name. Amen

“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” Ephesians 4:2 NIV

At the time that Paul was writing to the Ephesian church, they were struggling with becoming one, having unity. There were so many differences among the people within the church that they were finding it hard to agree on things like procedure and allocation of funds. Each person was trying to be faithful to Jesus as well as their old way of living at the same time.

Some individuals were more educated in scriptures and believed that they should hold more important roles in the church because of that. Others thought that because they were either Jew or Gentile that they should possess certain gifts from God. Paul was encouraging them to remember that Jesus taught a different way of living, a way that was the opposite of most of the worldly ideas. Being a Christian, both then and now, gives us the opportunity to demonstrate that way of living.

There are 4 characteristics in this verse about how we should live as followers of Christ. We are to be humble, not thinking more of ourselves than we ought to think. We have been taught by Jesus to put others first. We are to be gentle, keeping ourselves calm and trying to avoid conflict when possible. Not interacting with others in a harsh manner, but remembering to control our emotions in all situations.

We are to be patient, not always in a rush to complete activities or for growth to occur. Patience comes through trials, times when we need to demonstrate that patience in order to develop it. We are to bear with each other in love, living life through showing God’s love to others. We should be showing our love through our actions, making sure others are taken care of, being with others and understanding their situations.

Living life demonstrating these 4 characteristics can be hard at times. We are to try and imitate Jesus, who lived life demonstrating these characteristics and more. We may have grown more in one characteristic than another during our walk with God, and that is alright. The idea is to keep growing in all of them, no matter how small the growth is or how large it is, forward movement is best.

How are you doing with these 4 characteristics? Do you feel more comfortable demonstrating one more than the others? I encourage you to look at these today and determine which one you are moving forward in and which one you are struggling with. Then plan some action steps to help you grow in the area you are struggling. Ask God for help determining which area you struggle with and how you should move forward.

“The Lord your God is with you,” Zephaniah 3:17a NIV

Zephaniah lived during a time when Jerusalem had abandoned God. They had decided to worship other gods and even built altars to them. They did not hide this but did it in the open. Just as other prophets had, Zephaniah preached to all of Jerusalem that they needed to return to God. That they needed to stop sinning and begin obeying God again, that judgement was coming.

Even with everything that God’s chosen people have done, the sins they have committed, God still promises to gather all of them back together and restore their blessings. God is ever forgiving and faithful. In the beginning of the 17th verse that is shared above, Zephaniah is telling Jerusalem that they are not alone, that the Lord their God is with them.

How many times have we felt alone in this great big world. Alone in our circumstances, alone in our grief and sorrow. The devil works hard to make sure we believe that we are not ‘good enough’ for God, that we are ‘lost causes’ and that God has given up on us.

This is simply not true!!! With everything that the Israelites did, God was willing to restore them and then be with them. He did not leave them and He will not leave you or me. When we feel alone, I believe it is because we are the ones who have left. We have left God’s side at that point and we are the ones who need to return.

Heavenly Father, please help us to recognize when we have moved away from You. Help us to then return to Your side. Amen

“Then God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done.” Genesis 2:3 NIV

How often do we actually rest from our work? God made the world in 6 days and then He rested from His work. From the very beginning, God gave us a pattern to follow – work, then rest. I feel that in our culture this is a pattern that is very hard to follow. We are on the go most of the time and can obtain things we want at all hours of the day. For example, if we can’t physically get to a store, we are able to order what we need online.

Resting in our culture can sometimes be viewed as being selfish or lazy on the part of the person who is resting. This is unfortunate because God designed us to have the component of rest as part of our routine. If we didn’t need to rest, we wouldn’t sleep, but we very clearly need to sleep to recharge our bodies.

I am willing to admit that I struggle with the concept of rest. There are times when I feel like I have too much to get done and there is no time to rest and then there are other times when I feel like rest would be a good idea, but I can’t get my mind to settle down so my body can actually rest. I feel like God has been confronting me with this idea of rest more lately than in the past, so I am trying to practice resting for portions of my day. I don’t mean taking naps, but truly simply stopping what I am doing and either enjoying being still or talking with God. I am hoping to increase that time so that I can have a day a week where I am not working on something all the time. I want to use the time that I am resting to communicate with God more than I do now.

Do you struggle with resting?

“For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. ” Hebrews 12:2b

Imagine if you will watching a loved one face charges that were false and then be convicted of them without a trial. Then as you are trying to figure out how to help, the guards beat your loved one almost to the point that you can’t recognize them. They then parade your loved one down the street for all the people gathered around to yell at them, hurl insults at them and possibly throw things at them. Your loved one is then executed in a slow painful way. Now imagine that your loved one volunteered to be the one that paid for the charges that were brought.

Most people are not able to wrap their minds around the idea that anyone would do that, that they would willingly give their life so that others would be saved. It is hard to imagine a guilty person being willing to give up their life let alone an innocent person being willing to give that gift to the very people who are hurling insults at them and executing them.

In the second half of Hebrews 12:2, it states that ‘for the joy set before Him’. There is little ‘joy’ to be found in the scene described above, but Jesus found it. He knew that by allowing the guards to take Him and place Him on the cross that He would wipe out everyone’s sins, that ALL would be forgiven. The joy He focused on was in the completed event, the debt being paid and the hold that sin had on everyone being lifted.

Jesus was willing to face the shame that came with being crucified because this manner of death was reserved for the most horrific criminals. He knew the pain that would come as a result of His muscles weakening and His lungs collapsing. Jesus knew that this price had to be paid by someone who had not committed any of the crimes, had not sinned. He also knew that when it was over that He would be home again with His father sitting at His right hand, His rightful place in Heaven.

I know it can seem very hard to believe that someone would do that for you and me, but Jesus did that very thing for each and everyone of us. He did His part, so for us to do our part, we simply need to believe and accept.

Can you accept that He endured the cross for you?

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” John 14:27

Peace is an interesting concept. Most of us think of peace as a lack of conflict, no struggles occurring and it is normally a temporary state. The peace I am referring to is the peace that you see in someone who is going through a sickness, financial ruin, relationship destruction and they are not consumed by the situation. They are facing the challenge, the problem, and they know that they are in God’s hands, that God is in control and is there with them each step of the way. It is an inner peace that you can experience even though there is conflict and struggle around you.

When my husband and I were trying to have children I was unable to carry beyond 6 weeks, which resulted in several miscarriages. In the middle of this struggle, I decided that I needed to give it all to God. This took a while, but eventually I was able to release my desire at how we were to have children and embraced how God was going to give us children. My husband did this much quicker than I did but I got there. Around that time, I had a co-worker who asked me how I could seem to be at peace about all of this when I was not able to have the child I wanted.

As we talked, she told me that she sensed this underlying peace and calmness in me that she clearly did not understand. I did not understand it either at times and when I would try to figure it out, I was reminded to simply ‘be at peace’ because God had this under control. The peace that Jesus gives is not anything that we are able to accomplish without Him.

One of the wonderful things that came out of that time was that God used my situation to encourage my co-worker to build her personal relationship with Him. I had not realized that the peace that God gave me was as visible as it was. This is what prompted my co-worker to approach me about it. Just when I thought that my husband and I were facing this struggle alone, God showed me and others that He is walking right beside us through each situation. We are never alone.

I am glad that Jesus is willing to give me His peace because the peace of the world is only temporary and His is eternal.

Have you accepted His peace yet?

“Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ,” Romans 5:1 NIV

When we are saved, we are told that particular things happen. One is that our sins are forgiven, another is that we will be able to enter heaven when our time on earth is through, another is that we are justified as well as we are able to have peace with God. Up to the point of being saved, we are not at peace with God, we are actually at war with God because we are following the father of lies. Those who are not following God are following the devil, there are only 2 sides to this battle.

We are not at peace, no matter how much we want to believe we are, no matter how happy we seem, we are not at peace. When God made us, He made us to have a relationship with Him and we are not able to do that when we are not choosing to follow Him, but are instead following the way of the world, the way of the devil. Our souls were designed to be at peace, so not being at peace is a challenge for us. We search and search trying to find that peace in anything and everything, however, if we would stop and listen, God will tell us what we need to do to have peace. We need to accept Jesus.

Jesus died on the cross, was buried and then was resurrected so that the final payment for our sins would be paid. There are no more payments needed. We were given the ability to be justified because of the price that Jesus paid, if we choose to accept it. We have to accept it though. If we do, then we can be at peace, real peace, peace with God. Being able to be in the relationship we were designed to be in – with God, brings calmness to our souls.

Are you at peace in your soul? You can be. It’s your choice.